My Story of Working For a Bully

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This blog site is going to be about my life dealing with a workplace bully. Since I’m still working there, I will not be divulging my boss’ name, where I work, or my name. He is, after all, a bully. He also signs my paycheck. I will be using the pen name of “Bully Basher” for the same reason. Thanks for understanding!


It has been a long, hard struggle. It has impacted my life in many ways, physically, emotionally, and psychologically. I believe though that writing about this experience will help me get to a better place. I also believe that sharing the experience with others in similar situations will help, not only myself, but those reading these blogs.


I have no doubt that there are many, many people that have had to cope with a workplace bully. My hope is that we can connect and heal together. I will be providing you with information on bullies, some vital statistics, and ways to cope.


I also want to share ways to make the ordeal bearable. I have found a wonderful community of people that are helping me get out of this job and to have a new, exciting career. There really is light at the end of the tunnel!

If you ever need a hand or have any questions, feel free to leave them below and I will be more than happy to help you out.

We will survive!

The Bully Basher





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6 thoughts on “About Me

  1. Hi Brenda! I’m sorry to hear about your experience with workplace bullying. I’ve seen scenarios where people misuse their power to hurt others, and it’s always disturbing to see. It’s good that you are using your story to help others, and that you’ve found an opportunity to get out of that situation. Keep up the writing and encouraging others!

    1. Thank you so much for your comment Tiffany, I really appreciate it! It is very unfortunate that there are workplace bullies out there that cause so much pain to others. Hopefully, there will come a time when people like that are no longer accepted and their behavior no longer tolerated. I hope you come back and visit my site and thanks for your words of encouragement! 

  2. This a great website and has so much information for the person being bullied at work. I know at times I fall into the trap of being bullied as I have a younger boss that does not know compassion for the workers. I know it can really take its toll on a person. I have been following this website for a while now and really appreciate you sharing your story. I am ready to bash the bully.

    1. Thanks so much for your comments Dena. I appreciate it! It is easy to fall into the trap of being bullied. Who expects to be in a professional environment, doing your job and working as usual. Then suddenly you are confronted with someone who is not only being unreasonable but is actually being hurtful. I know for me it took a long time to realize my boss was more than just “hard to get along with” to him being an outright bully. This is an emotional journey for me and I thank you for reading about my life with the workplace bully. I hope you continue to follow and I love your comments!

  3. Hi Brenda, I am truly sorry that you have had to go through this ordeal. It is very sad that we have have so many people in this world that are so nasty,and hateful. I do believe that it has a lot to do with their upbringing and personality.
    I truly hope you find something else soon as nobody deserves that type of treatment from anybody. In the meantime keep your chin up and Big Hugs

    Take Care

    1. Thank you so much Devlyn! I am not going to deny that it has been a hard struggle, but I truly believe I am finding my way out of the situation and things will get better soon. It also helps knowing there are people like you out there who care about my future. Thanks again for your comment! 

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